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Fifteen Tips for Flying Alone with a Baby or Toddler

by Shelly Rivoli

Flying alone with a baby or toddler requires the swift dexterity of an octopus.

And in the days and weeks ahead of your flight, it’s easy to get bogged down in the logistical what-ifs? Some questions you may be asking…

  • How do you get your carry-on bags, stroller, and possibly a car seat—oh, and your shoes, and your coat—onto the X-ray scanner while you juggle your child? (And now they ask to see your boarding pass and photo ID for a second time?!)
  • How do you fold your stroller at the gate with your child in your arms?
  • What do you do with your baby while you use the lavatory?
  • And how do you install the car seat while wrestling your toddler and situating your carry-on bags?
  • And if you’re flying with a lap child, how will you eat your dinner when there may not even be room for the fold-out tray and your child in your lap?
  • Anything else to consider? How about negotiating baggage claim in an army of strangers slinging their heavy suitcases off the track?


Help is here. Consider these tips and strategies to help streamline your first time flying alone with a baby or toddler.

baby on airplane

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15 tips for flying solo with a baby or toddler:

1. If you haven’t already purchased your tickets, it may be well worth comparing your airline options using the Airlines Table in Travels with Baby: The Ultimate Guide… (beginning pg. 244) to see if any offer family-friendly perks that could make all the difference for you.

2. Take a “test drive” around your home (or around your block!) with whatever suitcase(s), stroller, backpack, baby sling, or other gear you plan to transport through the airport on your own.

Don’t wait until you get to the airport to discover your plan needs a little fine-tuning… And once you’ve ironed out this detail, it may also give you a helpful boost of confidence as travel day draws near.

3. Ask your airline (or check their information on your airport’s website) if you’ll have the option of curb-checking your baggage on arrival at either of your airports.

This may help you avoid struggling through the hairpin turns of the line inside the airport. An extra fee may apply (around $2 per item usually), but it could be well worth it.

4. If you want to wear your baby or toddler through the airport to keep your hands free for other things, keep it simple.

Use a simple cross-body sling that will slip off and back on easily with one hand in case you are asked to remove it and put it through the X-ray (you’ll also be less likely to get asked to remove a simple fabric sling).

While you’re not allowed to wear your baby in the sling during takeoff or landing, it could also prove helpful in saving your back and arms during lengthy flights (and be helpful when breastfeeding). See recommended Child Carriers, Wraps & Slings for travel here.

5. Keep toddlers and older babies buckled into their travel strollers until you have finished loading all other items onto the X-ray belt first.

On the other side, collect your stroller first and strap in your child before collecting your other gear.

It may take a few moments longer initially for your stroller to catch up to your other gear. However, your child will be safer and you’ll be much faster at getting the rest of it together when you have two free hands. See recommended Travel Strollers here.

6. Instead of lugging along a car seat in addition to your child, you may prefer to use the CARES child aviation restraint during your flight.

toddler flying with CARES
Providing maximum leg room (and support) by using CARES is just one way you might help keep your toddler from kicking the airplane seat on your next flight!

The FAA-approved CARES flight safety harness can be used for children 12 months and older flying in their own airplane seat. See my full review of the CARES harness with pros and cons and detailed photos.

7. If traveling with your child’s car seat, be sure to read the Seven Easy Ways to Get Your Car Seat to the Gate.

Depending on your travel plans and needs, you may prefer to roll your child through the airport strapped into his car seat, and either check your stroller or leave it at home.

And don’t miss Five Things to Know Before Flying with a Car Seat!

8. As you approach security, tell the first guard you see, “I’m going to need some assistance please,” and expect it (and ask the second guard you see, too, if you must).

A security guard should help you get your items into the X-ray, and one will hopefully help you collect them again on the other side.

9. Keep your travel documents and those of your child, boarding passes, and your cash and credit cards in a necklace-style travel wallet.

Your important items will be easy to locate and access each time they are needed en route — even while you have a child in your arms).

Better still, the necklace-style travel wallet will slip under your sweater or shirt when not needed for far greater security and convenience than carrying a purse or placing your wallet in a carry-on. (See more styles and options here.)

10. When using airport restrooms… Fortunately many airports now have family restrooms, and some others offer baby care/nursery rooms for travelers with babies. Visit your airport’s website in advance to check for these and their locations.

Where those options don’t exist, use the handicapped stall where there is plenty of room for your child to sit in his stroller and for you to park any extra gear.

11. When using aircraft lavatories… you can slip your baby into your over-the-shoulder sling (but remember flight crews in the U.S. will not allow you to hold the child in the sling during takeoff or landing).

12. Throughout your flight, don’t hesitate to ask a flight attendant if you need help with anything, from assistance in installing your child’s CRS to getting your bag into the overhead bin.

After all, your seat should come equipped with a flight attendant call button—don’t be afraid to use it.

13. At baggage claim, always keep a baby or toddler secured in his stroller or car seat (if transporting stroller-style).

And aim for a less popular portion of the claim conveyor belt where the “suitcase sling zone” is not so frantic or crowded and other passengers will likely be more aware of your child.

14. Rather than wait in potentially long lines for taxis after your flight, or long waits for Rideshare services, check the rates for private car service at your destination.

It may not cost much more to have a driver ready and waiting for you on arrival, and in some cases, they may also provide car seats or safety boosters for your child.

15. Don’t forget! Crossing international borders alone with your child requires extra documentation.

Your child may need more than a passport when traveling internationally.

If you’re traveling internationally with your baby or toddler and without the other parent (even traveling from the U.S. into Canada), you will need a notarized letter of consent from the absent parent, or evidence that you are the child’s sole legal guardian.

See more on this topic and a sample letter of consent in this post.


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My wife and I bought this before our first trip abroad with our baby. It really opened our eyes to quite a few things we had never considered about traveling with a baby. It covers all those things you don’t know you don’t know. I was glad we bought it. Now that we are seasoned travels with babies and small kids I find that some of the info in this book is our standard traveling procedure. … This book is a great starting spot and I recommend it, … the medical and safety info is superb!

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