Eager – Does he rush into new places, ready to explore, find the best toys, and make new friends? To see what snacks might be available? Is he happy to try a new food or wear a new jacket?
Cautious – Is he slow to warm up to new people and surroundings? Is he hesitant to talk with strangers and new acquaintances, turning away from them and in toward you? Does he prefer tried and true toys and clothes, and the same favorite book
Advice for Travel with the Cautious Child
Whenever possible, seat yourself between your child and strangers or people she is not familiar with, even if they are relatives you yourself have known since birth or your child has met before.
Family reunions can especially overwhelm this child, where many people may expect hugs and kisses, as well as holding privileges.
Remember that you are your child’s advocate, and be ready and willing to politely say no to people on her behalf. Practice saying phrases like, “Now’s not a good time—maybe later,” and “She’s a little shy, just give her some time.”
She may prefer to observe other children playing in the splash pool or on the playground from a safe distance before joining in, or need your company while she gets familiar with the new children and supervisors at a kids’ camp type program at the resort or on your cruise ship.
Understand that in all likelihood, you may be your “cautious” child’s playmate for the duration of your trip, so plan activities you can both enjoy together (this may actually work in your favor!).
Your child is not just slow to warm up to new people, but also to other novelties including new places and foods. Pack along some favorite snacks from home to help while she adjusts to new cuisine, or be prepared to do some of your own cooking.
Single-destination vacations are favorable, where he can become familiar with the new surroundings, routines, and any additional people–including possible new playmates at the pool or kids’ club, family friends or relatives, or caregivers–before the vacation ends! 😉
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