I remember when we’d returned from a trip where my kids had, of course, missed school since we usally need to travel in low seasons, and someone asked me with a big smile, “So, did you enjoy your vacation?” as we scrambled to get to their classrooms on time with all of the assignments required of them in their absence–which had been worked through in spite of major jetlag and a breakneck itinerary. We’d gotten home from the airport at 1 o’clock that same morning. I stared like a deer in the headlights a moment, as I tried to think of what “vacation” she was talking about, and then thought for a moment: she might have me confused with another parent.
A month doesn’t go by that I don’t stop and think how simpler things would be if either A) I gave up travel writing and started writing about anything else, or B) We gave up our “permanent” home and lifestyle to become fully digital nomads. We’re not willing to give up either at this time, however, I assure you. 😉
And while we may sometimes get the rockstar treatment on the road, with comps, upgrades, freebies, and very flattering invites, you should also know my kids are also no strangers to the Super 8. Or flying three legs of a flight over 2 days instead of a straightshot in one afternoon because mom booked the tickets with miles. Again.
Even my kids work hard for our travel opportunities, which was crystal clear on this most recent road trip when we covered 2850 miles in 11 days and 10 nights, slept in 7 different hotels, cleaned up 6 eruptions of carsickness, called on 4 different National Parks/Monuments, and visited 4 cousins. And it all started with this insanely packed visit to Tenaya Lodge at Yosemite:
In less than 48 hours, we’d made it to our scheduled ride on the steam train, panned for gold, swam in the outdoor pool, made it to our scheduled archery session for 5, made it to our dinner reservation (little T fell asleep at the table before we even finished), swam in the indoor pool. The next morning I made my 8:00 a.m. meeting and property tour while big T got the kids fed and ready before meeting our local guide for our family hike (where we ate white fir needles and manzanita berries!), before a quick swim and lunch, before my horseback ride with my daughters, before getting the kids ready to check in for their evening camp, before our “Date Night at Tenaya” where we hit the spa for our couples’ massage before our grownups’ dinner at the lodge, before picking up the kids and hitting our pillows before… making our 9:00 a.m. family rockclimbing session, before checking out and driving 7 hours by way of the Mojave Desert to the next night’s hotel: The Signature MGM Grand, Las Vegas.
What I have left out of this description is the very necessary time I also spend, often in the hotel bathrooms late at night and early in the morning while everyone else sleeps, writing my notes and drafts and editing photos. You can see why I don’t try to publish all my posts DURING our travels. 😉
Well, in spite of a few bumps along the way and returning home completely exhausted, everyone agrees we had an AWESOME trip. And while we did decide to postpone our upcoming roadtrip just slightly (big sigh–did I mention I also have a book project deadline looming in the near future?)… nobody here seems ready to give up mom’s travel writing career any time soon.
—> What’s the craziest trip you ever took with your kids? Do you put any limits on how far you’ll travel or how few days you’ll stay in one place now that you have children?
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